I asked strangers about the best things they've spent their money on - here's what they said
turns out, the best purchases aren't always the most expensive
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Opening note
I came across an article recently that unpacked how social media has morphed—perhaps even unravelled—into something far less social than it was meant to be. Platforms like Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, Twitter, and Snapchat have shifted away from personal updates and genuine moments. Now, they’re saturated with polished content from brands, influencers, and paid partnerships. Instead of feeling like a space for connection, social media increasingly resembles a stage for performance.
As the article put it, “The line between our personal and professional lives has become so blurred that social media feels less like a place for genuine connection and more like a stage for curated performance.”
It got me thinking about how detached I’ve become—and I know I’m not alone. These platforms, once casual and fun, now feel like nonstop cycles of self-promotion and algorithm-driven noise.
Scroll after scroll, we’re bombarded with ads and aspirational posts, each one promising the secret to a glow-up, a life hack, or some elusive version of “better.” But let’s be real: most of it, we don’t actually need.
Sometimes it’s just a fleeting trend. Other times, it’s marketing wrapped in relatability, selling us the illusion of transformation.
So I decided to ask my friends—and all of you here—what’s actually worth it. No sponsorships. No pressure. Just honest, real-life recommendations from people who aren’t trying to sell anything—just share what’s genuinely added value to their lives.
The best things people have spent their money on
Home Comforts & Everyday Luxuries
Perpetual Calendar
A beautifully designed, reusable calendar that works every year—ideal for remembering birthdays, anniversaries, and meaningful dates without needing to replace it annually.BedJet (Climate Control for Bed)
An under-the-sheets heating and cooling system that lets you control your bed’s temperature year-round—say goodbye to night sweats or freezing toes.Heated Blanket
The ultimate comfort on cold days. Perfect for cozy movie nights, working from home, or curling up with a book.Weighted Blanket
Offers calming pressure that can ease anxiety, improve sleep, and give you that "hugged" feeling throughout the night.Premium Mattress, Pillows & Bedding
A truly transformative investment. Quality sleep is priceless, and a good mattress setup makes you wonder how you ever settled for less.3-Meter Phone Charger
No more awkward angles or stretching across the bed to reach your device. The freedom to charge and use your phone comfortably.Steam Mop
Cleans floors quickly and deeply using just water—no harsh chemicals. Makes regular mopping almost enjoyable.Roborock Vacuum Mop
A smart vacuum and mop combo that keeps floors spotless with minimal effort. It handles the mess while you do literally anything else.Bidet Toilet Seat
A total game-changer in personal hygiene. Eco-friendly, refreshing, and one of those things you won’t believe you lived without.
Wellness, Health & Self-Care
Laser Hair Removal
An upfront investment that saves time and money in the long run—many say it's one of the best decisions they’ve made for low-maintenance grooming.Dry Shampoo
Not just a time-saver—extends your hairstyle between washes and adds volume. A bathroom cabinet essential. Batiste is an affordable brand to try.Shower Scalp Massager
Turns a regular shower into a mini-spa experience. Promotes circulation, helps with dandruff, and just feels incredible.Loop Earplugs
Stylish, discreet, and comfortable enough for everyday use—great for concerts, studying, sleeping, or even just finding peace in noisy environments. This model of earplugs was a popular choice submitted.
Work & Productivity Boosters
Standing Desk
Supports better posture, improves focus, and adds movement into your workday. A solid choice for anyone working long hours at a desk.Mechanical Keyboard
Tactile, responsive keys that make typing a joy. Whether you're writing, coding, or just love the feel, it levels up your desk setup. This slim wireless keyboard and compact keyboard from Logitech were popular choices.
Logitech Lift Ergonomic Mouse
Reduces wrist strain while improving workflow comfort. A small change with a big ergonomic payoff.ChatGPT Pro
A digital assistant that enhances productivity, creative brainstorming, and everyday problem-solving—like having a super-smart sidekick.
Fitness & Active Lifestyle
Walking Pad
A compact treadmill that fits under a desk or in small spaces—perfect for getting your steps in while working or watching TV.High-Quality Running Shoes
Shoes like the New Balance 9060, Fresh Foam 1080, and Asics Novablast 4 offer top-tier support, comfort, and style for daily walks or runs.Garmin Watch (vs. Apple Watch)
A fitness-forward upgrade. Garmin’s long battery life, precise tracking, and performance-focused features make it a favourite for serious movers.
Style, Travel & Convenience
Blundstone Boots
Timeless, weatherproof, and built to last—these are the most comfortable and durable boots many have ever owned.Birkenstock boston
Supportive yet stylish, they fit perfectly to your feet over time and are perfect for everything from errands to travel days.Polarised Sunglasses
Sharper vision and better eye protection in bright light. A staple for outdoor adventures or beach getaways.Durable Claw Clip
A surprisingly impactful upgrade. No more snapping cheap clips—this one holds up and actually lasts.E-Reader (Kindle or Kobo)
Holds thousands of books in one lightweight device. With adjustable lighting and long battery life, it's perfect for reading anywhere, anytime. Popular e-readers people submitted included a Kindle Paperwhite and Kobo clara colour.Kindle Stand & Page Turner
Hands-free reading made easy. Great for reading while eating, doing skincare, or relaxing in bed.
Kitchen Game-Changers
Vitamix Blender
A powerhouse appliance that can handle smoothies, soups, nut butters, and more. Built to last and a favourite for serious home cooks.
Gadgets & Little Joys
Owala Water Bottle
Turns hydration into a pleasure. Leak-proof, stylish, and makes drinking water feel oddly satisfying.YouTube Premium
No ads, background play, and downloads for offline viewing. A simple upgrade that enhances daily entertainment.Instead of buying an adaptor for different countries, having a universal adapter saves you money and space.
Worthwhile Splurges
Vacations & Holidays
Always a meaningful investment. Experiences, memories, and time away often bring more lasting joy than any object.LASIK Eye Surgery
For those eligible, it’s been life-changing—no more contacts or glasses, just clear vision and freedom.
What are some of the best purchases you’ve made? Feel free to share your answers in the comments.
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